It's pretty common these days to see kids depicted as disrespectful in children's books, movies, and TV shows. It’s the new normal. It's as if the golden age of manners and speaking kindly to parents is ancient history. Now that I'm in the parenting game, I see it everywhere.
Flashback to my childhood when my parents were the movie police. My mom had a movie vetting system that drove me nuts. I'd get so annoyed every time a new movie came out, and my mom would go into full "research" mode. Turns out, it wasn't just about the curse words—it was about how the movie depicted relationships between parents and their children. My parents were on a mission to ensure it didn't normalize disrespect without a lesson learned. Fast forward to me as a parent, and now I totally get it.
My wake up call came last week when I was excited about diving into chapter books with my kids. I cracked open one of the books only to discover that one of the characters was totally out of line and disrespecting everyone in sight. Talk about a plot twist!
Now, I get it – kids can be a bit sassy from time to time. But this was a prime teachable moment. Much to my disappointment, the book just breezed past it, as if this kind of behavior was totally acceptable. As if to imply that disrespectful behavior is OK. It felt like the author missed an opportunity to address and discuss important values. Not cool.
When it comes to the books I read with my kids, I want stories that weave positivity into parent-child relationships and sprinkle in life lessons when the moment calls for it. When we read together, it’s like a mini adventure to create a better world, starting with the pages of the book.
Yep, I've turned into my mom. She’s probably thrilled reading this. She’s also right.
Love, Dahlia
FEED ME:
Ugh, isn’t it annoying when you're stuck with a couple mountains of leftover rice? This recipe is the perfect solution. I typically use this recipe with leftover quinoa and the baby goes gaga over it. Toss in some shredded zucchini or carrots for an added veggie bonus! Plus, it’s freezer-friendly too!
Ok, you guys are well aware of my obsession with the Stokke Tripp Trapp, I mean I have three. But Mockingbird just released their new highchair and its turning heads. Should I sell one of my Tripp Trapps and buy it? Thoughts?
When I’m in a breakfast rut and don’t want to bother with the oven, I just toss some fruit and dips (peanut butter and yogurt) on a plate and call it a day. My kids think I’m supermom. Breakfast of champions - nailed it!
NOURISH ME:
This is my third repurchase of this thick, luscious face cream, which is perfect for the dry season. I fell in love with Caudalie a few years ago and there’s no turning back.
I’ve been dealing with some back and neck pain and while physical therapy is a game-changer, all goes haywire in the middle of the night. I wake up with my head in weird angles, which I’m sure isn’t helping the situation. This got me thinking: it’s been awhile since I invested in my sleep health. Just bought this one. Will report back.
ENTERTAIN ME:
STYLE ME:
I’ve been living in Missouri without proper boots (no Dahlia, Birkenstock clogs do not count as winter shoes) and it’s time to level up. But why is it so difficult to find simple black riding boots? No buckles or frills please. I ordered these - let’s see if they work.
Speaking about style, does anyone else feel lost in the fashion world? I definitely do. Read this if you hate current trends.
Lusting over this pink sapphire ring. Think I’ll get a friends and family discount?
COOK ME:
Am I living under a rock? I just discovered Ruhama Shitrit on IG and her food looks drool-worthy. I made a batch of her veggie-lentil soup and it was fantastic. I highly recommend giving her a follow!
INSPIRE ME:
My friend told me about this secluded getaway she took with her husband and I’m definitely intrigued. You rent a tiny cabin in a forest (apparently with intentionally weak WiFi) and dive headfirst into nature, hiking, and forging deeper connections sans the internet. Um, sign me up!
I know your mom, and if you turn into her, you'll be OK!!
I totally agree that children’s books and tv shows/movies are missing out on a great opportunity to teach kids valuable lessons, such as respect! Please share any good books/movies/tv shows you come across that help promote good values and morals!
PS. Get in line for that pink sapphire ring, I already called dibs!!